Q : My fianc'e and I are not drinkers and we really don't want a whole lot of people being drunk at our reception. So my question is, is it ok to have a cash bar at a wedding reception?
A : I certainly understand your position. You have a couple of choices. A cash bar is acceptable. You may want to make mention of this if you are providing a printed menu. Another idea is unless you and your fianc'e are apposed to drinking, provide each table with a bottle of wine, or one glass of wine (or champagne) per guest to toast the Bride and Groom. Your guests may purchase their own drinks after that. If you are totally opposed to having alcoholic beverages at your reception, don't feel that you need to. Although not common, it is done. It is your wedding, and one should not go against personal convictions if it will take enjoyment out of your special day.